December 24, 2015 – Christmas I
© 2015 Evan D. Garner
Audio of this sermon can be heard here. (Note that, near the end of the sermon, I misspoke and said "unbroken" when I meant to say "broken.")
Jim wasn’t much of a
cook, but he wanted to impress his girlfriend. They had been dating for a
while, and he wanted to do something special—something that would convey to her
that he was taking this relationship seriously—that he was willing to take some
risks for her—and cooking dinner for his beloved seemed to be a good way to get
that across. But Jim had almost no idea what to do. So he called his mother. “Mom,”
he said, “I want to cook dinner for Margaret.” Silence. “Mom? Are you there?” “Yes,
Dear. I’m sorry. I was just so…surprised. You don’t know how to cook.” “I know
that, Mom,” he responded. “That’s why I’m calling you. I need your help.”
Jim was under the
impression that one of Margaret’s favorite dishes was chicken Alfredo. He’d
heard her say that her mom had made it for their family when she was a child
and that it was something she always looked forward to when she went back home.
Jim explained to his mother that he had already found a recipe on the Internet
(uh-oh), but he needed some help pulling it off. They talked through the basics:
how to sauté onions and peppers and when to add the garlic, how to make sure
the chicken was fully cooked, how to boil water and cook the pasta. The hardest
part, of course, would be the sauce. “Cream sauces can be tricky,” Jim’s mother
warned. “You want to thicken it without burning or breaking the sauce. If you
don’t stir it frequently, it can all fall apart.” “Don’t worry, Mom,” Jim
reassured her. “This is really important to me. I won’t screw it up.”
On the appointed evening,
Jim had asked Margaret to meet him at his apartment where he had a surprise for
her. Curious and a little bit nervous, Margaret pulled up right before 6:30pm.
When Jim opened the apartment door, she was floored. “What’s that wonderful smell?”
she asked, hardly believing her nose. “I thought we were going out for dinner.”
“I wanted to surprise you,” he replied. “Come and keep me company.” She
followed him into the tiny efficiency kitchen with the two-burner stove. (Why
would he need more than that, he had explained to the facility manager when he
took the tour, since he doesn’t cook?) “May I help?” Margaret asked. “No, thank
you,” Jim said, trying to be cool. “I’ve got it.”
Slowly and somewhat
haltingly, the meal took shape. First, the chicken was browned. (Margaret
laughed to herself while Jim turned it every 45 seconds because he was afraid
it would burn.) Then, the vegetables were cooked and the salted pasta water had
come to a boil. Jim hadn’t thought of a salad, but he did buy one of those
pre-packaged garlic bread sticks in the freezer section, and it was heating up
in the oven. Finally, Jim went to the fridge and pulled out the carton of
whipping cream. He knew this was the hard part, but he felt like he was on
track for a great evening—maybe even perfect.
It surprised him a little
bit to find that the carton was puffed out as if someone had blown a bunch of
air into it. He didn’t remember that when he got it at the grocery store, but
he had never bought cream before, and he figured it was nothing. When he opened
the carton, though, he immediately knew that something was wrong. A sour, sickly
smell escaped the cardboard container carried on the puff of trapped air that
escaped as it was opened. He brought it up to his nose for a good whiff and
quickly recoiled from the evidently spoiled substance. “I just bought this,” he
thought to himself, checking the date. “It’s not expired yet. What happened?
Maybe this is how it’s supposed to smell. Then again, maybe I shouldn’t have
left it in my car while I went to the gym.” “Is something wrong?” Margaret
asked. “No, it’s nothing,” Jim said, not sure what to do. “Should I use it?” he
wondered inside his head. “Surely not. But what should I do? Maybe it won’t
make a difference. Maybe I can add some extra oregano to cover it up. Maybe she
won’t notice. But maybe she will. This could be a disaster. I don’t want to
call my mom in the middle of this. I’ll look like an idiot. What about this can
of sweetened condensed milk left over from that time Margaret made key lime
pie? Would that work?”
Except to the one cooking
dinner, it’s funny how the perfect plan can all fall apart when one ingredient
turns out to be bad.
Tonight is the holiest of
nights. This is the festival of our savior’s birth. This is the night when God
breaks through into human history to show us the fullness of his love. This is
the moment when God’s perfect plan of salvation unfolds for the whole world to
see and celebrate. And that makes tonight a truly perfect night…except that it
isn’t.
Mary and Joseph arrive in
Bethlehem, but there is no room for them in the inn. A kind innkeeper takes
pity on the expectant couple and gives them permission to bed down in the
stable amidst the animals. But one unhappy accident follows another, and that
very night the time comes for Mary to deliver her child. Instead of having the
protection of her home or, at the very least, a room in the inn, she gives
birth to the baby Jesus in the same stall where the horses usually give birth
to their foals. With no crib or baby clothes, Mary wraps her infant son in some
spare strips of cloth and places him in the empty manger, the feeding trough
where in the morning the animals will expect to be fed.
Despite these apparent setbacks,
God is not deterred. Through an angel, accompanied by the multitude of the heavenly
host, God announces the good news of the savior’s birth to the only audience who
is still awake to hear it—some shepherds living in the fields with their flock.
When the angels depart, and the lowly shepherds race into the city to see this
remarkable thing, making these illiterate, smelly, unmannered onlookers the
only ones to come and greet God’s own son. This is the long-awaited savior,
Emmanuel, God with us, and he is born, of all places, in a barn and adored, of
all people, by shepherds. And still God is not deterred.
But the greatest and most
confounding mystery and miracle of all is that God would come among us not as
he is and always has been but that God would take upon himself the fullness of human
nature and be born as one of us. Surely that is where the plan goes wrong.
Surely things will fall apart now because, in the birth of Jesus, God who is
holy and perfect is joined together with the imperfect, unholy, broken nature
that is within all of us. And we know human nature. We know the pain and
turmoil that it has brought into our lives and into the world. And we know what
happens when you mix a bad, spoiled ingredient into an otherwise perfect
recipe. But, this night, that isn’t what happens. In the birth of Jesus,
instead of our imperfection spoiling the whole thing, we discover that God’s
perfect love has the power to transform us and restore us into the unblemished
people God created us to be. This is exactly what God has in mind. This is precisely
his perfect plan.
This is God’s dream for the world—not that a
perfect people would receive his perfect gift on a perfect night but that God’s
perfect love would transform all of our imperfection and finally make all
things the way God created them to be. The beauty of God’s plan is that it
hinges upon our imperfection. Only a broken vessel can receive the
transformative love that God brings into the world this night. Unlike the love
that we have for one another—a love that overlooks the mistakes that we make
and celebrates even when a recipe goes wrong—God’s love has the power to take
those mistakes and make them right—to take our imperfection and make us
perfect. That is the good news of this holy night. That is the hope of God’s
perfect plan. You are not perfect, but God is. This world is not perfect, but
God’s love is. In the birth of Jesus, our savior, God shows us that he has the
power to take even the most imperfect of circumstances and make them shine with
the holiness of God’s perfect love.