I can’t remember where I heard it—perhaps I made it up—but I
remember hearing some “expert” say that when a parent is sitting with a child,
watching television or a movie, and sees someone on the screen smoking, the
parent should gently remind the child that smoking is a bad habit. That’s one
way to undo the unspoken influence that seeing a smoker in a prominent role has
on a child. So I do it. Every time. Some of my loved ones have died or are
dying from smoking-caused illnesses. I’ve heard them wheeze, and watched them
suffocate slowly because their lungs can’t exchange carbon dioxide for oxygen.
The threat is real to me, and, in age-appropriate ways, I want my children to
know it, too.
But I’ve taken that practice out of the den and from in
front of the television screen and carried it to the rest of the world. When we’re
walking down the street or playing in a park or watching a tee-ball game and we
see someone smoking, I quietly say to my children, “Smoking is bad for you. It’s
a nasty habit. Don’t ever smoke.” I don’t try to hide that from the person smoking.
I figure if they can unleash their bad influence on my child by smoking in
front of him or her, I should be able to point out that influence and try to
counter it. For the most part, that quiet exchange is a private moment that no
one else notices…except when my child sees the smoker first and points at them
and yells out, “Oooh! Daddy, that person is smoking! That’s a nasty habit!”
Now, in addition to fighting the smokers’ influence, I’m
also fighting the tendency to confuse bad actions with bad people. “Smoking
might be a bad thing to do, but it doesn’t mean that a smoker is a bad person.”
It’s hard to convince a four-year-old that good people sometimes do bad things,
and I feel certain that’s a lesson he’ll learn on his own in due time. Truth be
told, it’s hard to convince me, a thirty-three-year-old priest of the same
thing. And that leaves me wondering how we as Christians understand that good
people can do bad things. How do we escape the taint of original sin even
though we live as redeemed children of God?
Jesus spent a lot of his time with the smokers of his day.
Worse than that, of course, they were the real
sinners of society: prostitutes and tax collectors and lepers and lazy-good-for-nothings.
He welcomed them to his table. He went out and looked for them. And every time
he did it, he challenged the assumptions of the day—that sinful people were bad
people, unworthy of God’s blessing. But that doesn’t mean he didn’t hold them
to the same high standard that God’s people had known from their earliest days
as the people of Israel.
In today's gospel lesson (Matthew 5:17-20), Jesus said, “Do not think that I have come to abolish the
law or the prophets; I have come not to abolish but to fulfill. For truly I
tell you, until heaven and earth pass away, not one letter, not one stroke of a
letter, will pass from the law until all is accomplished.” It doesn’t surprise
me that Jesus hung out with the scum of his day. What surprises me is that he still
said things like this—that all that the Law of Moses demanded was still being
demanded. Why? Because it’s hard for me to understand that good people do bad
things.
Jesus’ life and ministry honored the personhood of even the
most despicable sinner of his day. He sat at table with them to show the
religious elites of his day that God had a place at his own table for every
man, woman, and child on earth—no matter how sinful. But, over and over, Jesus
calls all of us—saint and sinner alike—to a life of holiness. He says to us, “Unless
your righteousness exceeds that of the scribes and Pharisees, you will never
enter the kingdom of heaven.” And he means it. But what we have to remember is
that our righteousness comes not from keeping the Law but from being loved by a
merciful God. Yet, as God’s righteous children, we are called to live into that
righteousness in remarkable ways.
Go and sin no more. Jesus’ love is transformative. He
reaches out to those whom religion has given up on and says, “You, too, can be
made new.” In many ways, he’s not doing anything different than the most
stringent of the Pharisees. His call to holiness is as robust and demanding as
theirs. But he issues that call to everyone. And it starts with sinners like
you and me. Amen.
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